Haven’t we all fantasized about the great skills and qualities our “Mr.” or “Ms. Right” will have in their repertoire?
I might really like and respect someone, but if they don’t have what it takes to climb the mountain of marriage, it would be foolish to marry them regardless of how strong the sexual chemistry or romantic infatuation is. — Gary Thomas
Gary Thomas points out the importance of discovering whether or not the person we are thinking of marrying is capable of having a really solid marriage. Do they know how to forgive? Do they have strong relationships with other people? Is this a person who will commit for life? When you choose a spouse, you’re literally betting your life that this is going to work, so go into it only after a lot of prayer and a great deal of careful consideration.