Forgiveness doesn’t mean absolving people of the consequences of their actions.
If there is something you can do to bring healing, why live estranged from a loved?
My husband gave me an ultimatum. I had to choose between him or God. I chose God. I thought it was the end, but God sure didn't.
How could I forgive the woman who had gone after my husband and ultimately married him? I thought about her. Dreamed about her. Saw her in every woman I met.
I witnessed bitterness eat away at my husband until the very end. But it turned out I was holding onto resentments of my own.