Does being loving and Christ-like mean you should give someone the power to hurt you? Absolutely not. That's why we need firm boundaries in a messed up world.
Has your relationship been one-sided for too long, with you doing most of the caring and planning? It's time to carefully assess the nature of your relationship lest you forget how you deserve to be treated.
I know how exciting the forbidden kiss is and how electrifying the stolen, passionate caress is but I also know how costly they are because I almost lost everything including my marriage.