In relationships, we should always aim to live in harmony with each other. In order to do that, we each must readily adjust ourselves to other people. This is not always easy to do, but the grace of God is available to help us. Oftentimes we don’t take the time to process why challenges come up in relationships. We are too quick to judge.

Selfishness has no place in healthy relationships, but the harmony we long for will come when we begin to put others above ourselves. This is one of the characteristics of Jesus. The Bible is filled with many examples teaching us how to handle our relationships. It is important for us to learn from the best Teacher; the Holy Spirit. It is impossible for us to love the Lord, whom we can’t see, if we do not love those who are with us daily.

God has made it possible to do what seems impossible, even when we are in a difficult place. One important lesson the Holy Spirit taught me years ago, was to seek peace and pursue it. In order to do that, it took work on my part. Our scripture reference today is one I had to keep close to my heart.

Father, there are people in my life that I struggle to relate to.  I pray that you would teach me to rely on the grace you have already provided to help me in my times of need.  I invite you into every relationship I have. Minister to our hearts today and allow us to see truth in every situation.  Teach us how to love like you love, Father. Amen.

Take Action

Today, when compromise or sacrifice is necessary, offer it graciously rather than requiring it of the other person.

Bring a little more love into your life.

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