How Do I Love Thee?

“How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.” Words from this sonnet written by Elizabeth Barrett Browning for her husband popped into my head this morning. Love. Who but a God of love could think up such an outlandish, exquisite, sublime entity as a husband?

God gives us love so strong that in marriage it transforms two separate beings, a man and woman, into one (Mark 10:8). Marital love differs from every other love on earth in its uniqueness, completeness and opportunity for lifelong companionship. Who knew that the guy who picked me up hitchhiking 46 years ago would end up being my dearest companion in life’s travels? God knew. He must have been smiling that day on the outskirts of the Grand Canyon as I stood with my thumb out.

And how about that tenacious love mothers and fathers have for their children. Who knew when I gave birth to my kids it would usher me into a beautiful dying to my own (often) self-centered agenda and expand my capacity for affection like nothing I’d ever experienced? God knew. And I think he’s still smiling, as I’m still releasing them.

The greatest joys in my life come in one form of love or another. Through the love I experience for my extended family and friends, but also through the pleasures I discover in what I see, hear, touch, smell and taste. Through the satisfaction I find in my work. In creativity. In beauty. Even in my sorrows.

None of this would be possible without the love of God. Scripture tells us God is love. When we love, we get a glimpse of him. “No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us” (1 John 4:12).

So…. How do I love Thee God?

I can’t begin to count the ways. How about you? Are you counting the ways you love the lover of your soul?

Father God, thank you for loving us as you do, and in so many ways. Help us recognize the glimpses you so graciously give us.

Throughout the Day: Ask God to help you see his love and give him thanks for his wonderful ways.