A True Friend

I have had a few really good friends in my lifetime. One, a roommate from university days, and another who worked for several years, side by side with me in children’s ministry at our church. I don’t see either of these women very often, but I count them as true friends.

These friends accept me as the introvert that I am. We know each other’s kids, and are able to ask for updates, as mothers who have had to tackle challenges in raising our kids, and now relate to adult children.

A true friend is a precious gift. They accept you as you are and pick up where you left off, no matter how long it's been. They share your history, memories, and challenges.

Of course, my husband has been my very best friend, and through him, I have learned the truth of this verse! Tough times have only deepened our love for each other, and we have become stronger as a result.

Love is an emotion, but more importantly, it is a commitment that goes beyond feelings. It is serving when it is inconvenient, being available to someone that you really care about, no matter what they are going through.

I have to confess that there are times when I do not feel like being a true friend, when I already feel overwhelmed or just plain tired, when I just want some time to myself. I am not a very good friend at times.

Is it even possible to love a friend all of the time? Is there someone that can always be available when trouble comes into my life? (Sometimes even my husband has been unable to be with me when I need a friend the most, and I have felt the disappointment of being alone with my struggles.)

Of course, Jesus is the one true friend who loves all of the time, and is always there to help when life goes sidewise.

Jesus, thank you for loving me and always being there when I need you the most! Amen.

Throughout the Day: Think about the true friends that God has given you. Reach out to one of them, to say what you appreciate most about the friendship.