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Understanding Your Relationship with Jesus Christ

PART 1 OF 4 IN Learning to Follow Jesus, by The Life Team treasure

Knowing Jesus Christ is the most exciting relationship you can have. It is the beginning of a life of adventure with an all-loving, all-powerful God. If you have sincerely asked Christ to come into your life, you can be sure that your relationship with God is secure. As a result of Christ’s death on the cross, the only sufficient provision for a relationship with God, you have been completely forgiven and accepted by Him.

There are many exciting things that are true in your relationship with Christ. Understanding these truths will help you build a firm foundation on which to grow. Spend some time reflecting on the questions asked in each section; the answers are listed at the end of this challenge.

1. Christ forgave your sins

“In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God’s grace…” (Ephesians 1:7).

When you trusted Christ for the forgiveness of your sin, all your sins were forgiven… past, present and future. What difference do you think it makes to know that all of your sins have been forgiven?

2. Christ made you a child of God

“But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, even to those who believe in His name — children born not of natural descent, nor of human decision or a husband’s will, but born of God.” (John 1:12-13).

What did you do to become a child of God?

3. Christ came into your life and He will never leave you

“Behold, I stand at the door and knock; if any one hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him” (Revelation 3:20).

a) Where is Christ right now in relation to you? (Christ speaking) “Whoever comes to Me I will never drive away” (John 6:37).
b) Under what circumstances might Christ leave you?
c) According to this, how many times is it necessary to receive Christ?

4. Christ gave you new life

“Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!” (2 Corinthians 5:17).

When you trusted Christ to be your Saviour and Lord, you began a new spiritual life. God will increasingly produce many new qualitites in you as you grow in Him.

5. Christ gave you eternal life

“And this is the testimony; God has given us eternal life, and this life is in His Son. He who has the Son has life; he who does not have the Son of God does not have life. I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God so that you may know that you have eternal life” (1 John 5:11-13).

a) In whom is eternal life found?
b) Who has eternal life?
c) Do you have the Son (Jesus)?
d) Do you have eternal life?
e) When did eternal life begin for you?

These wonderful benefits are based totally on Jesus Christ. None of them can be earned. You received them the moment you placed your faith in Christ.

Which of these five truths are especially meaningful to you now? Why?

Dealing with doubts

Even though feelings are important, your relationship with Christ is based on facts, not on feelings that can change daily. Doubts, questions and varying emotions are common parts of everyone’s life, but they are very unreliable gauges of anyone’s relationship with Christ. The Christian lives by faith in the trustworthiness of God and His Word.

But what if you don’t feel like a Christian tomorrow? Place your faith in the faithfulness of God Himself and the trustworthiness of His Word. The more you learn, the more you will be able to answer any doubts with solid facts. Your feelings will begin to respond to the truth of God’s Word and not to your circumstances.

Since you have trusted in Christ’s payment for your sin, understood the basis of your relationship with God, and have learned five truths about your relationship, you can be confident in your relationship with Christ.

2) You received Christ, you believed in His Name
3a) In your life.
3b) None
3c) Once
5a) Eternal life in the Son (Jesus)
5b) All who have Jesus in their lives
5c) The moment you received Him

Photo (Flickr CC) by Christopher Crouzet

Take Action!

  1. 1Apply What You've Learned

    Start by reflecting on one truth a day. Read the accompanying verses and thank God that this is now true for you. Then, tell someone this week that you have a relationship with Christ!

  2. 2Talk to a Spiritual Mentor

    We need people in our lives to listen, to offer hope and perspective, and to pray for us. If you would love to receive some spiritual encouragement, talk to one of our confidential mentors.

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