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Oprah and A Course in Miracles

What is "A Course in Miracles", and why is Oprah Winfrey offering these daily courses via her satellite radio program and promoting the courses on her show? Is it a new age philosophy, a religion, or something entirely different?

Whatever it is, it would be a mistake to ignore what Oprah promotes. Her TV show, magazine, website, and other media ventures that are part of her massive Harpo Productions corporation have huge readership, so anything she promotes (especially as frequently as she has promoted A Course in Miracles) will result in huge sales.

An article on TheLife.com explores what A Course in Miracles is all about: Oprah and A Course in Miracles. We encourage you to read it, and invite you to post your responses in the comments on this blog.

School Beatings

Embarrassment. Shame. Disgust. These ugly words don’t begin to describe the horror of what it felt like to be beat up as a 14 year old. I can still remember my classmates gathered around cheering for the ones delivering the powerful blows. As the beatings continued, I looked for a place deep within myself where I could pretend that the beatings weren’t happening to me.

I didn’t know what I had done to be hated so much. As an adult, I still don’t know. I didn’t understand why tormenting me was such a fun event for everyone else. The beating seemed to last forever and finally I was left laying on the ground. Beaten and bruised, I stood up to make my way back to the school building. I knew this day would forever change my life.

My peers accomplished something that day. They stripped me of my self-worth and made me hate myself as much as they hated me. I believed I deserved it. I was too scared to tell my family or any of the teachers. It happened a lot that year.

In the years that followed, I went through a lot of pain because I disliked myself so much. So much hurt could have been avoided if I would have dared speak out. I was convinced that no one would hear me if I did. Now, as an adult, I can see that my thinking was wrong. I did not deserve to be beaten-up. I had done nothing wrong and if I had gone to someone in authority they would have helped me. I was not as along as I felt.

School beatings have been in the news a lot the past few days. How can students and adults stand aside and watch as children are tortured? What can we do to stop this abuse? What if the student was one of your own friends? What if it was you?

 

Video: Internet People

Before the Internet, most famous people became well known because of exceptional ability, talent, or achievement that was particularly noteworthy. Nowadays, any idiot with a webcam can become famous (and many do). How many of the popular Internet memes in the video do you recognize?

Question to ponder: Are people making significant achievements in the fields of humanities and sciences being subjugated by the popularity of "Internet people", whose obscure talents may make us laugh (often at the person instead of with them) yet add little to our practical lives or life fulfillment?

Toronto set to launch black-focused school

Earlier this month, the world celebrated Martin Luther King Jr Day on the 40th anniversary of Dr King’s historic speech where he dreamed of equality for people of all races. The issue of race has come back prominently into the news in Canada with the announcement that the Toronto District School Board approved moving ahead to created an "Afro-centric school":

The debate over Africentric schools in Toronto is raging [due to] a controversial step to help struggling black students with alternative education. By a vote of 11 to nine, school trustees agreed on an "operational model" for a black-focused school. The school would focus on the experiences and contributions of African people with a goal of discouraging students in the black community from dropping out.

A study done in 2006 found that 40 per cent of black students do not complete high school. [Source: CTV News]

Do you think a race-focused school will help? Is it appropriate to create schools which are tailored to specific races, or should public schools attempt to present a unified and diverse curriculum that is applicable to everyone in modern multicultural North America?

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School Beatings

Embarrassment. Shame. Disgust. These ugly words don’t begin to describe the horror of what it felt like to be beat up as a 14 year old. I can still remember my classmates gathered around cheering for the ones delivering the powerful blows. As the beatings continued, I looked for a place deep within myself where I could pretend that the beatings weren’t happening to me.

I didn’t know what I had done to be hated so much. As an adult, I still don’t know. I didn’t understand why tormenting me was such a fun event for everyone else. The beating seemed to last forever and finally I was left laying on the ground. Beaten and bruised, I stood up to make my way back to the school building. I knew this day would forever change my life.

My peers accomplished something that day. They stripped me of my self-worth and made me hate myself as much as they hated me. I believed I deserved it. I was too scared to tell my family or any of the teachers. It happened a lot that year.

In the years that followed, I went through a lot of pain because I disliked myself so much. So much hurt could have been avoided if I would have dared speak out. I was convinced that no one would hear me if I did. Now, as an adult, I can see that my thinking was wrong. I did not deserve to be beaten-up. I had done nothing wrong and if I had gone to someone in authority they would have helped me. I was not as along as I felt.

School beatings have been in the news a lot the past few days. How can students and adults stand aside and watch as children are tortured? What can we do to stop this abuse? What if the student was one of your own friends? What if it was you?

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4. Nicknames that are inappropriate will either be banned, or be asked to change the nick, according to the discretion of the administrator in the room. (This includes any names that include sexual words or sexual connotations.)

5. Our chat rooms are public rooms monitored by a team of administrators, during various times.

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thelife.com AND CO-HOST: (these instructions apply to all administrators present in the room at any given time, including open chat.) The administrators are a team of people hand selected by our Directors, to serve as administrators and leaders in our chat rooms. They direct chat discussions, as well as to deal with disrupters. For their protection, and the protection of the room, their user names are not revealed in open chat. If you happen to know one of their user names, please respect their privacy and protection by not discussing this with other users, NOR revealing this information in open chat at any time.

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Occasionally, there is a monitor in the room. The Monitor is there for your protection, as well as to deal with various situations that come up in chat, according to the stated purpose of the room. Please respect requests the Monitor makes of you. For safety purposes, general use of the private chat feature is currently disabled. Hostesses, monitors and administrators in the room may use PC to address an individual chatter as needed. Please respect any request made of you by an administrator using private chat. You will be unable to respond in PC to the administrator. If a response or explanation is needed, you may use the chat-feedback form to contact the site administration.

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Coming in the room as multiple users at the same time, will result in immediate expelling.
using any nicks or words that include sexual connotations in an inappropriate way.

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* Be culturally sensitive. We have visitors from all over the world.
* Enjoy learning from others, and apply grace. Many different denominations participate, and many people are at different places in their spiritual journey. Please apply grace to each, especially in “Non-essential” doctrines. The purpose of the room is not for debate.
* Because the chat room is like a park, we do sometimes get men in the room. While we do not encourage them to stay, we should still be welcoming to them, and see if we can minister to them by a) answering their questions b) inviting them to write email mentoring for a specific problem. c)being aware that they also need the Lord, and may be seeking to grow spiritually. It is not our intention to make CWT co-ed, but neither is it our intention to make CWT so unwelcoming that we chase men away. Men who break the terms of service will be dealt with.
* Don’t flood the chat window with lots of messages, (5 or more in a row, or very long messages) preventing other chatters from participating in the conversation. Be careful with the use of humor, so that it doesn’t distract from users who wish to share more serious concerns.
* When there are times of praise & worship-please pause when other users enter to greet them..and see if they have a need they wish to share before you continue. As the purpose of the room includes evangelism, please be **aware that there could be “seekers” in the room at any given time.**
* Do not develop or include users on email lists, without their express permission. Emails are considered private information. Official chat email lists are available through the chat newletter, and joining the “pray-er’s” email list.
* Do not press your point of view regarding someone’s problem to the point that it is argumentative. People are free to make their own decisions. Opinions are welcome, but to make negative comments when the person chooses not to agree is not acceptable, even if it is an important decision. If someone’s choice is hurtful to you, please feel free to leave the room and return at another time.
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* Stay on topic, and honor the leadership of the room..
* Evangelism is, of course, welcome, but please be sensitive to the Spirit when seeking to share the Gospel. Having a listening ear, and caring heart is often necessary before the Gospel can be presented. Also, offer to pray for the needs expressed. Evangelism in the chat room: Please read and follow these stated guidelines.

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Please refrain from advertisements or promotions of personal websites, business or asking for money for any purpose in open chat, or in pc. Users who persist in advertisement/promotion/asking for money will be banned.

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We allow users to post helpful links in response to questions in our interactive areas with the following conditions:

1) Links must be consistent with the purpose of the site.

2) Links may not be advertising or considered advertising. Links to personal sites or business are not permitted.

3) Links must be posted in response to specific questions or needs within the conversation.

4) Repeated posting of a link or posting of links that is disruptive to the conversation is not appropriate and will be considered spamming and can result in banning.

5) When an administrator requests links to not be posted, please honor that request.

6) Discussion board registration may not include website links. Such registrations will be deleted.

7) Third party links are not necessarily endorsed by the host of this site. Please use discernment when reviewing links given to you by others.

On the discussion board: Registrations that include websites will be deleted. Posts with links considered advertising or that are in direct conflict with the purposes of this site will be removed.

In the chat rooms: Repeated posting of a link or posting multiple links is considered spamming and will be dealt with accordingly. Posting links which are not related to the conversation is inappropriate. Honor the request of any administrator in the room if you are requested not to post a link. Continued posting is a violation of Terms of Service and may result in banning from the room.

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